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Writer's pictureCindy Davis

Finding the Right Place for You: Exploring Living Options


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Welcome back to our series on older adult downsizing for a better life. In our first post, we explored the emotional and practical considerations involved in deciding if it's time to move. Now, we turn our attention to the next critical question: where should you live?

 

Choosing a new living space is a significant decision that requires careful thought and planning. According to a survey conducted by OnePoll on behalf of ClearMatch Medicare, a substantial 75% of seniors would rather live in their own home than move into an assisted living community (11%) or in with family (10%). The reasons for staying at home are compelling:

 

  • 73% of seniors feel capable of caring for themselves,

  • 72% value their independence, and

  • 64% have a strong attachment to their home

  • 46% appreciate being familiar with their neighborhood,

  • 42% like their community, and

  • 24% do not want to leave family behind.

 

Beyond these practical considerations, the survey highlights other important emotional factors. Many seniors would miss their friends (25%), local businesses (16%), and even their doctor (15%). Concerns about losing independence (21%), not socializing enough (19%), and being a burden on family and friends (19%) also play a significant role in the decision-making process.

 

In this post, we'll delve into the various living options available to you, from aging in place to moving into senior living communities. We'll discuss the pros and cons of each option and help you prioritize the features that matter most in your new space. Whether you're considering staying in your home, downsizing, or seeking additional support, this guide will provide you with the information you need to make the best choice for your future.


Three Senior Housing Approaches

When considering where to live as you age, you have several options, each with its own benefits and challenges. Understanding these options can help you make the best decision for your needs and lifestyle. Here are the main options to consider: aging in place, downsizing to a smaller home, or moving to a senior living community.


1. Aging in Place

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The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention defines aging in place as: “The ability to live in one’s own home and community safely, independently, and comfortably, regardless of age, income, or ability level.”

 

Remaining in your home as you age can help maintain your quality of life, satisfaction, and self-esteem. The benefits of aging in place include maintaining autonomy and independence, continuing to use existing community services, and preserving the comfort and memories associated with your home and neighborhood. Staying connected with friends and neighbors helps reduce feelings of loneliness, while the familiarity of your environment enhances your sense of safety and security. Additionally, aging in place can be more cost-effective than moving to a long-term care facility.

 

However, this option also comes with challenges such as progressive memory decline without trained support, decreased participation in hobbies or interests leading to low mood, and the risk of social isolation. Physical decline can make navigating your home and performing daily tasks difficult, and caregivers may not always be fully educated on supporting individuals with cognitive impairments.


2. Downsizing to Smaller Living Space

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Downsizing involves moving to a smaller home that is easier to manage and maintain, and it offers several appealing benefits. With a smaller home, you face reduced upkeep requirements, saving time and effort on maintenance and cleaning. Financially, downsizing can lead to significant savings on mortgage payments, insurance costs, property taxes, and utility bills. Simplifying your living space with fewer possessions can lead to a more organized and less cluttered environment, and choosing a home with an accessible layout can make daily living easier.

 

Downsizing also presents challenges. Letting go of a long-term home and many possessions can be emotionally difficult, and the process of packing, selling, and moving can be physically and mentally taxing. Additionally, finding a smaller home that meets all your needs can take time and effort.


3. Relocating to Senior Living Community

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Senior living communities offer various levels of support, from independent living to assisted living and skilled nursing care, providing a safe, social, and supportive environment for older adults. These communities offer numerous benefits, including access to healthcare and assistance with daily activities as needed. The availability of on-site social events, dining with neighbors, and organized activities helps prevent isolation, while the design of these communities emphasizes safety with features like emergency call systems and accessible layouts. Maintenance, repairs, and often housekeeping are handled by staff, relieving residents of these burdens.

 

Nevertheless, senior living communities can be expensive, especially if higher levels of care are required. Some individuals may feel a loss of autonomy and privacy, and the adjustment period to a new community can take time before it feels like home. For more information on selecting the right senior living community to you, we recommend you explore the following blog posts:

 

 

Each of these options has its unique benefits and challenges. By carefully considering your needs, preferences, and financial situation, you can choose the living arrangement that best supports your lifestyle and well-being.


Priorities for Your New Space

When considering a move, focusing on what you gain rather than what you lose can help make the transition smoother. Acknowledging that change can be difficult is important but remember that downsizing can free up time for you to spend with friends and family or engage in hobbies you love, without the burden of extensive home maintenance. Here are some key priorities to consider for your new space:


Layout

Choosing a smaller home with features that enhance your comfort, safety, and independence is a good option as you age. Look for homes with a single-level floor plan to avoid the fall risks associated with stairs. A flat lot will make walking around your yard easier, minimizing the fear of tripping on uneven ground. Avoid properties with large hills or steep grades, especially in areas prone to inclement weather. Opt for paved or concrete driveways and sidewalks instead of uneven surfaces like rock or gravel.

 

Homes with single-level living spaces, such as a first-floor full bath, and minimal steps are ideal for reduced mobility that can come with age or illness. Bathrooms should have non-skid surfaces in the tub and shower and easy-to-use, ADA-compliant single-handle faucets with anti-scald features. ADA-compliant toilets with additional height can provide ease of use, whether or not you use a wheelchair. Ensure that kitchens, hallways, and doorways are wide enough to accommodate wheelchairs or walkers. Consider the number of bedrooms, the size of the kitchen (whether a large kitchen or a kitchenette), and if there is a place for grandkids to visit.


Amenities

Choose a neighborhood close to your most frequently visited locations, such as shopping centers or restaurants, as being within walking distance can be beneficial if you no longer drive regularly. Consider if the new location will support hosting parties and gatherings or provide opportunities for social interaction.


Outdoors

Consider your preferences for outdoor space. If you have pets, ensure the new home accommodates their needs. Think about whether having an outdoor space is important to you and if you prefer views of greenspace. Decide if you want an open patio or a screened-in area to enjoy the outdoors comfortably.

 

By focusing on these priorities, you can select a new living space that not only meets your current needs but also enhances your lifestyle and well-being.


Renovations and Modifications for Aging in Place

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If you decide to stay in your current home or have purchased a new downsized home, consider modifications to make aging in place more manageable. Seeking out Certified Aging in Place Specialists (CAPS) can help alleviate some of the stress associated with planning these modifications. Local contractors who specialize in home modifications for older adults can also be invaluable resources. Here are some key items to consider:

 

  • Home Entry and Safety. Adding a ramp with a hand railing to the home’s main entrance can make coming and going easier and safer. Placing non-skid solutions on indoor and outdoor steps and putting a light switch at the top and bottom of each set of steps are crucial for preventing falls.

 

  • Bathroom Modifications. Installing a walk-in tub or shower and grab handles in tubs, showers, and near toilets can significantly enhance safety. Replacing existing toilets with ADA-compliant models, which have additional height, can also make a big difference.

 

  • Flooring and Lighting. Securing carpets to the flooring and ensuring no bunched-up areas could become trip hazards is essential. Non-skid strips and mats on tile, wood, or other flooring that may become slippery when wet can help prevent falls. Floor-level nightlights installed throughout the home provide illumination for navigating in the dark.

 

  • General Home Safety. When choosing a home, look for features that contribute to a safe environment. The carpet should be firmly secured to the floor, and a first-floor full bathroom is ideal. Grab bars in each shower, tub, and near toilets, as well as adequate handrails along indoor and outdoor steps, are critical safety features. Light switches should be located at each end of the stairs near handrails for ease of use.

 

  • Inspection and Upgrades. When purchasing a new home, have the inspector check for ADA-compliant features and provide a list of recommended upgrades. While these modifications may not be immediately required, health changes such as decreased mobility and cognitive function can occur quickly. After hospitalization for an extended illness, modifications might need to be completed before discharge.

 

  • Professional Consultation. Consulting an experienced older adult home care nurse or occupational therapist can be very helpful. You can ask for an order for this type of in-home consultation from a healthcare provider. They can recommend current and future necessary amenities. Even if the home doesn’t have all the amenities wanted or needed, durable medical equipment (DME), such as an over-the-toilet frame to raise the seat height, can be ordered with an appropriate assessment. DME can help adapt parts of the home that are not ideal for aging.

 

By addressing these renovations and modifications, you can create a safe and comfortable living environment that supports aging in place and allows you to maintain your independence for as long as possible.

 

Deciding where to live as you age is a significant decision that requires careful consideration of various factors. Whether you choose to age in place, downsize to a smaller home, or move to a senior living community, each option comes with its unique benefits and challenges. By prioritizing what matters most to you—be it maintaining your independence, reducing upkeep, or accessing additional support—you can make a choice that enhances your quality of life. Remember, this journey is about creating a safe, comfortable, and fulfilling environment that meets your needs and supports your well-being. With thoughtful planning and the right resources, you can find the perfect place to call home in this new chapter of your life.

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